How to Be a Man
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I wish to see the youth of my country come forward upon the stage of life, models of excellence, with characters formed for the times in which they are to act. How much influence my book may have, in securing such a result, I cannot tell; but my design in writing it has been, to contribute something toward forming the character of some of those who are to be our future electors, legislators, governors, judges, ministers, lawyers, and physicians, — after the best model; and, from the kind reception of my former attempts to benefit American youth, I trust they will give a candid hearing to the few hints contained in the following pages. It is intended for boys, — or, if you please, for young gentlemen, — in early youth, from eight or ten to fifteen or sixteen years of age. It covers substantially the same ground occupied by a work for girls issued simultaneously with it; and some of the chapters are identical in the two books, while others are entirely different, and some partially so. It is the hope of the Author, that every one who reads it, will strive to be a man in the highest sense of the term. (Summary by Preface)
Chapters
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| On Childhood and Youth | 7:55 | Read by ShrimpPhish | |
| Nature and Objects of Education | 7:29 | Read by jenno | |
| Piety, as the Spring of Action and Regulator of the Soul | 9:56 | Read by ShrimpPhish | |
| Filial Piety | 18:04 | Read by rajapillai | |
| Treatment of Brothers and Sisters and Others in the Family | 10:43 | Read by jenno | |
| Behavior at School | 8:02 | Read by sweetslover | |
| Behavior at Table | 6:29 | Read by ShrimpPhish | |
| Behavior at Family Worship | 4:15 | Read by favorezeanuna | |
| Private Prayer | 7:10 | Read by Belinda McReynolds | |
| Keeping the Sabbath | 33:44 | Read by BeAWhale | |
| Habits | 24:16 | Read by rajapillai | |
| Education of the Body | 13:17 | Read by Belinda McReynolds | |
| On Useful Labor | 14:31 | Read by czandra | |
| Education of the Heart | 34:33 | Read by Belinda McReynolds | |
| Education of the Mind | 12:46 | Read by sweetslover | |
| Reading | 11:05 | Read by D.Scott | |
| Writing | 5:31 | Read by D.Scott | |
| Indolence | 5:12 | Read by mleigh | |
| On Doing One Thing at a Time | 3:09 | Read by mleigh | |
| On Finishing What is Begun | 3:00 | Read by mleigh | |
| Choice of Society and Formation of Friendships | 4:45 | Read by czandra | |
| Bad Company and Mischievousnes | 6:47 | Read by rajapillai | |
| On Amusements | 16:59 | Read by Gabrielle Alma | |
| Government of the Tongue | 12:10 | Read by Patty Marie | |
| On the Art of Agreeable and Profitable Conversation | 11:28 | Read by Will | |
| Inquisitiveness | 4:20 | Read by Pete McElveen | |
| On the Importance of Being Able to Say No | 3:31 | Read by Pete McElveen | |
| On Being Useful | 5:07 | Read by Pete McElveen | |
| On Being Contented | 4:49 | Read by Larry Wilson | |
| Union of Serious Piety with Habitual Cheerfulness | 6:57 | Read by Larry Wilson |
Reviews
Old but good advice
mchiles
Most readers were excellent. The material is also excellent. Even on those things you may not agree with personally, you can see that if you or your children were to do those habits they would be better people.