The Gentleman and Lady's Book of Politeness and Propriety of Deportment


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The Gentleman and Lady's Book of Politeness and Propriety of Deportment by Élisabeth Celnart is a comprehensive guide to the social graces and etiquette of the mid-nineteenth century. This insightful work offers readers a window into the expectations of behavior and decorum that defined polite society during this era.

Through a series of essays, Celnart explores the nuances of proper conduct for both gentlemen and ladies, addressing topics such as conversation, dress, and social interactions. The book serves not only as a manual for personal conduct but also as a reflection of the cultural values and social hierarchies of its time.

With its detailed instructions and thoughtful observations, this work remains relevant for those interested in the evolution of social norms and the art of civility. Whether you are seeking to refine your own manners or simply wish to understand the historical context of etiquette, Celnart's guide provides a rich and informative experience.

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01 - Part 1, Introduction - Of Propriety of Deportment, and its Advantages 8:30 Read by Lyn Silva
02 - Part 1, Chapter 1 - Of Propriety of Conduct in Relation to Religious Duties 9:46 Read by Chessie Joy
03 - Part 1, Chapter 2 - Of Propriety of Conduct in Relation to Domestic Duties 3:44 Read by Jolie O'Dell
04 - Part 1, Chapter 3 - Of Propriety of Conduct in Conjugal and Domestic Relations 11:00 Read by Lyn Silva
05 - Part 1, Chapter 4 - Of Propriety as Regards One's Self 20:45 Read by Lori Arsenault
06 - Part 1, Chapter 5 - Of Propriety in Regard to One's Business or Profession 22:39 Read by Annette McGuinness
07 - Part 2, Chapter 1 - Of Deportment in the Street 11:10 Read by Tammy Stalcup
08 - Part 2, Chapter 2 - Of Different Kinds of Visits 34:55 Read by John Kooz
09 - Part 2, Chapter 3 - Of the Manner of Receiving Visitors 11:03 Read by Tom Merritt
10 - Part 2, Chapter 4 - Of the Carriage of the Body 8:39 Read by Snapdragon
11 - Part 2, Chapter 5 - Of Physical Proprieties in Conversation 24:24 Read by Jill Engle
12 - Part 2, Chapter 6 - Of the Moral Observances in Conversation 33:59 Read by Jolie O'Dell
13 - Part 2, Chapter 7 - Of Epistolary Composition 24:31 Read by Jill Engle
14 - Part 2, Chapter 8 - Additional Rules in Respect to the Social Relations 18:44 Read by Loveday
15 - Part 2, Chapter 9 - Of Travelling 5:14 Read by Snapdragon
16 - Part 3, Chapter 1 - Of Entertainments 10:08 Read by Anna Simon
17 - Part 3, Chapter 2 - Of Promenades, Parties, and Amusements 16:07 Read by Kevin W. Davidson
18 - Part 3, Chapter 3 - Of Balls, Concerts, and Public Shows 14:03 Read by Vanessa Garcia
19 - Part 3, Chapter 4 - Of the Duties of Hospitality 5:18 Read by Arnie Horton
20 - Part 4, Chapter 1 - Of Marriage and Baptism 11:13 Read by Pamela Krantz
21 - Part 4, Chapter 2 - Of Duties toward the Unfortunate 17:33 Read by Lucretia B.

Reviews

Excruciating Formality


(3 stars)

For all the people who think that 'etiquette' was invented by rich people with too much time on their hands, this book is for you. The author, who is from Paris, prescribes the most tedious set of rules for afternoon calls, and the wedding customs are completely French. It makes me tired.

Absolutely Hilarious


(5 stars)

A delightful dry humor, punctuated by the narrator's delivery.

Jolie O'Dell is an excellent reader


(4 stars)

I hope she reads more books soon!